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Separated – Relationship and Intimacy Restored after EMO

by Sandra Hillawi

by Sandra Hillawi

Here are two nice case stories concerning relationship problems which beautifully illustrates the power and simplicity of EMO.

This couple were living apart and the wife didnt feel like being physically intimate with her husband anymore (which is why she moved out). After 20 mins she fancied him all over again and they have ended up getting back together. This is how the session went, a typical EMO session .....

Sandra: "What do you want in relation to your husband?
Client: "Dont know"
Sandra: " and where do you feel that in your body?"
Client : in my stomach
We softened and released it, the energy flowed out her legs and feet.
Sandra: Ok now, what do you want?
Client: I want to be free.
Sandra: and where do you feel it in your body when you say I want to be free?
Client: Its fear, in my chest.
We soften and release the energy, flowing up and ot of her mouth.
Sandra: Ok now, when you say you want to be free how do you feel?
Client: Thats strange, i feel neutral.
Sandra: Ok, so now, think about your husband. Where do you feel it in your
body?
Client: In my stomach.
We soften and release it.
Sandra: Now when you think of your husband how do you feel?
Client: Thats strange. It feels ok now. Ive not felt like this for at least a year.
Sandra: Now, how much do you fancy him? How attracted are you to him?
Client: Well I dont fancy him much, say a 6 out of 10.
Sandra: So when you think about that, where is it in the body?
Client: In my heart.
We soften and release it.
Sandra: Ok now, how much do you fancy him?
Client: Well I do now. I can see me looking forward to him coming home from
work but then when he gets home and is actually there I feel blocked about it.
Sandra: So when you think about being intimate with him, where do you feel
that?
Client: Its out there(points in front of her) its a block between us.
Sandra: put your attention on this energy and soften it, and tell me what
happens.
Client; Its melted and is on the floor.
Sandra: Where does it want to go?
Client: Its coming in.
Sandra: Does it feel ok coming in through my feet?
Client: Yes.
Sandra: Ok let the energy flow in and through and tell me where it flows and where it wants to leave.
Client: Its flowing up and out my mouth.
Sandra: Ok let it flow up and out and tell me when its all cleared through.
Client: Its clear.
Sandra: Ok now, your husband comes home from work, you're looking forward to seeing him You know he'll want to make love to you, how do you feel?
Client: Smiles.... God this is amazing.
Sandra: When was the last time you felt this way towards your husband?
Client: A couple of years.

 

As I said, they’re getting back together again now and have restored their relationship.

I had a row with my Father in Law and bad relationship ever since

Client: "I had a row with my Father in Law, as he'd upset my wife with a tale of his marriage break up while she was pregnant and I was away from home. I was livid and since then our relationship has been very distant and I felt angry towards him and very guarded ever since. I feel awkward when he comes to visit, in my own house"
Sandra: So when you feel guarded towards him where do you feel that in your body?
Client: In my arms, it feels like hard wire down my arms and into my hands, like I want to punch him
Sandra: This is just blocked energy. Put your attention on it and think of it softening and tell me what happens.
Client: Its softening, going like liquid mercury and flowing towards my hands.
Sandra : Where does it want to leave?
Client: Through my fingers.
Sandra: OK Let it all flow down and release through your fingers and tell me when its all clear.
Client: Its clear now.
Sandra : Ok, so when you think of your Father in Law, how do you feel now? How guarded?
Client: (Bemused) Well, I dont (Laughs).
Sandra: How angry do you feel?
Client: (Thinks back to the issues) I dont (Laughs again)
Sandra: And when you think of him coming to visit and being friendly and welcoming to him, how does that feel?
Client: I just feel like he's ok, welcome and its all fine.

Posted Mar 24, 2004 by Sandra Hillawi