'Diane' first came to see me one year past and since then I have become the Energist for the whole family. Diane had originally come to see me regarding how to improve her business We had been working on the feeling that she "was not good enough" as well as other problems We had used mainly Aspect and Autogenic work.
The situation with Diane now is that everything in her life is fine. Her business is booming the relationship with her partner is perfect. There is however, one problem she feels would get her up to a +10.
This particular day we had been working on Diane's weight loss and fitness levels, when she told me about the problem her partner David is having with his ex wife Emma. They have a child together and Emma is being obstructive when it comes to access to the child. Diane mentioned that wouldn't be magical if we could tap on this particular issue to which I said " let's do it"!!!
The outcome was to be that Emma could be more reasonable and allow David more access. So first of all we looked at how Diane felt about Emma. After de-stressing, we tapped on Diane's " bad thoughts" about Emma. As we tapped , Diane felt " sick to the stomach" and a tightening. We tapped on "sick feeling in stomach" which went from -5 to 0.Then she felt a whooshing feeling in her head which came as a feeling of guilt- she felt if she wasn't around, David would go back to his ex wife and child. We tapped on "guilt" at -4 which evolved to a + 5. I then asked Diane what would she like more of in her life. So we tapped on understanding clarity and trust to reach a +8.
Diane then told me about Emma's abusive childhood and wondered if that could be why there were difficulties regarding David"s access to the child, and whether we could tap for Emma. The first tapping round was " for Emma". So Diane and I tapped on " I am Emma" for " fear of being taken advantage" " hatred" " separation anxiety" We tapped on each negative until we reached a positive on the SUE scale. We then introduced positive energy forms of clarity, trust, control and calmness. The change in energy was tentative.
I then suggested we could tap for the group ie Diane, David, Emma,Amber ( the child) and Andrew ( Emma's partner). We called the unit "Kula the Rabbit" Together, Diane and I tapped for each individual of the group. Amber wanted stability, Diane wanted acceptance from Emma,Emma wanted trust and happiness, David wanted clarity and Andrew wanted communication. During the tapping we focused on acceptable access.
To conclude the session, We did some future aspect work. So we created a habitat, where the aspect of Diane is at the home of Emma and Amber. It is a warm Saturday summer morning. The sun is shining. The aspect is feeling excited. She arrives to Emma's home and she can smell the aroma of baking cakes. As she gets out of her silver Mercedes, Emma and Amber run down the drive to greet her. Amber leaps into Diane's arms and gives her a painting she made earlier and a piece of home made sponge cake. The aspect feels confident that the visit will go well and feels warm inside. Diane takes Amber by the hand, waves goodbye to Emma and says see you at 7pm. The energy is warm and relaxed.
Both Diane and I felt exhilarated and energized after the work we accomplished.
What happened next was unbelievable!!!
I had a call from Diane to tell me that Emma had accepted all access requests from David immediately. It was as if there had never been a problem in the first place and why was everyone so worried about it. This is an amazing example of PURE MAGICAL ENERGY working in all areas.
** Further Info **
|